Tuesday, December 2, 2008

During my early teens, I learned to love Cory and the gang from the popular 90’s television show, Boy Meets World. I have been a fan for as long as I can remember and can sit for hours laughing at each episode. I always thought that the T.V. show set a good example for teens on how to deal with similar situations that Cory and his friends are faced with. However, three episodes were banned from airing on the Disney channel because they contained “mature” content: sex and alcohol.

Granted, these “touchy” topics may give the wrong impression to teenagers if not explained well enough or if the issues aren’t clear to the audience. Such a show like Boy Meets World, however, provides moral solutions to the pressures of growing up. Our society is so worried about what messages television shows send these days that producers and parents alike avoid discussing the problem altogether. Instead of enlightening kids on the pressures they may face, the topics are altogether ignored, thinking that what they don’t know won’t hurt them.

For those of you who have never seen Boy Meets World, each season basically follows the life of Cory Matthews as he transitions through middle school to college. Cory’s girlfriend Topanga, along with his best friend Shawn and brother Eric are right beside him every step of the way. While “wandering down this road that [they] call life”, they encounter problems that test their friendships and relationships, all the while learning and maturing along the way.

Boy Meets World originally aired on ABC Family until the season ended in 2000. The Disney channel then took over showing reruns. ABC Family made the decision not to show three of the episodes which were previously aired on ABC Family.

In the first of the three banned episodes, entitled “If You Can’t Be With the One You Love…,” Cory was dumped by his Topanga and had trouble coping. People called him “Cory the downer” and he wasn’t invited to a big party the upcoming weekend. To solve this problem, Cory stole whiskey from his father and drank it before going to the party. He ended up being the life of the party and people liked being around him. Shawn eventually found Cory drinking in the bathroom, who convinces Shawn to experience the “magical powers” of alcohol with him. On the way home, the boys were caught by the cops and scolded by Cory’s parents when they got home. They both agreed never to drink again, but the habit was harder for Shawn to give up. Cory found Shawn drinking the very next day. Shawn was confronted by his brother Jack because their father’s drinking problem was the cause of their parents’ breakup. Shawn was also confronted by his girlfriend Angela, but he became angry and hit her. After Angela walked out on him, he became appalled at himself for what the “powers” of alcohol urged him to do. He then vowed to stop drinking for good since he saw the person alcohol brought out in him.

In the second of the banned episodes, “PROM-ises, PROM-ises,” the two couples Cory and Topanga and Shawn and Angela, wanted to make their prom night meaningful by having sex. Cory made all the arrangements, such as renting a hotel room, so that everything would be just perfect. Cory and Topanga had talked about it and thought they were both ready. Shawn and Angela on the other hand hadn’t discussed the issue yet, so before the big night began Angela decided that since they weren’t able to talk about it, they weren’t ready to do it. Long story short, Cory’s plans fell through and he and Topanga decided that they weren’t as ready as they seemed.

So, what messages do both of these episodes send? Don’t drink because it becomes addictive and hurts friendships, and don’t have premarital sex because teen couples are not mentally or physically ready to handle the consequences. Who wouldn’t want their child to learn this in the form of a real-life situation? I just don’t understand why parents and producers try to shield children away from these scenarios that they will one day have to face. Teen drinking and premarital sex may be frowned upon by society, but many kids are faced with these issues and don’t know how to act. On most occasions, mistakes involving sex and alcohol are made because those involved are uneducated or don’t know how to act. I mean, sure, kids learn about sex and alcoholism in health classes, but a lecture doesn’t have the same effect on kids as seeing the situation acted out realistically. I think it’s ridiculous to ban episodes just for the material they mention, especially when it their meaning is motivational. If helping a friend defeat alcoholism is not standing up to peer pressure, then I don’t know what is.

Underage drinking and pre-marital sex would not be such a big deal in our society if teens of our generation didn’t feel as though talking about these subjects was taboo. It seems like television companies are trying to hide these touchy issues for as long as possible, until the viewers are “mature” enough. By this point, the projected audience may have already given in to peer-pressure. The earlier kids start learning about the pressures of adolescence, the better they will understand the consequences of the choices they make. If the Disney channel network really wanted kids to learn how to handle these situations, they would teach them early on rather than allow them to learn the hard way.

7 comments:

mm0506 said...

I am a fan of the show as well, and I know exactly what you are talking about! I cannot agree with you more in that children should not be censored from "touchy" topics that are resolved with a lesson on values or morals.

In today's society especially, teens and children are faced with issues such as sex and alcohol on a fairly regualr basis. It seems odd that a television network that has "Family" in the title would censor episodes taht aim to teach the family.

If the younger viewers don't see sex or alcohol on episodes aired on ABCFamily, they are bound to be faced with the issues on another station or in real life eventually. However, if these particular episodes were aired to the viewers, than sex and alcoholism would be viewed in a moral and innocent light, rather than the more harsh and less value-enhancing ways that can probably be seen on different television shows.

Good topic. I am glad you brought this up; it is really something to think about. Maybe ABCFamily will read this and change their censorship!

jackalope said...

I have never watched Boy Meets World but i do agree with you. Children need to be educated on topics like alcoholism and sex. In Europe teens are given a more comprehensive sex education which helps them make informed decisions on sex. Unfortunately America, for some reason is lagging behind and does not give kids the proper sex education they need, leading to higher teen pregnancies and higher STD rates. I believe that television is an excellent way to educate teens on sex and alcohol use. By banning these episodes the network is depriving kids of valuable information that could help them make informed decisions in the future.

Stacy Rad said...

For clarity purposes, I just want to point out that Disney Channel is the station banning episodes, not ABC Family. I mistyped that in the post. But without further ado...

I know for a fact that this is not the first blog to be written complaining about the banned Boy Meets World episodes. I have seen message boards, websites, even an online petition page asking fans to sign their names in hopes of convincing the Disney Channel to change their ways (http://www.petitiononline.com/mod_perl/signed.cgi?bmw14). Many fans, who were unaware that these episodes were banned at the time, wish they would have seen them earlier, so they wrote their messages in response to the poor judgment shown by Disney Channel.

Some people have sent emails to the Disney Channel website asking them to air the episodes, and claim to have worked. I have never witnessed this myself and am referring solely on those who have posted on message boards before. Viewers say that once they have asked Disney Channel to play these episodes, the television station has only played them between the hours of 3-11 p.m. This is so that really young children are not exposed to it, but rather school-aged children, who are Disney Channel’s main audience.

I really appreciate the fact that they try to accommodate the requests of their audience. Although Disney Channel's contract with the creators of Boy Meets World ended in 2004, they still show episodes every once in a while. However, as the years go on, there isn't much hope for the show to be aired. Newer television shows will become more relevant to kids and attract Disney's target audience more than a 90's T.V. show.

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Caraluna said...

Yeah! I absolutely loved Boy Meets World! I do have a personal experience with this that, looking back at, makes me laugh. My mom was very protective of what she let us watch. My whole family would watch this show, but when they reached the college level we had to quite watching it. Her reason was because of the co-ed bathrooms and Cory’s brother, Eric, having a female roommate. My mom eventually realized that she couldn’t shield us from life forever. I also had a friend whose parents shielded her from PG-13 movies all the way up to 17 years of age. It was ridiculous. I mean, I’ve met some people who have been extremely shielded when they lived at home, but then they were extremely awkward out on their own because they don’t know how to deal with things outside their understandings.
Anyways, as for the show being banned from Disney, all I have to say is that it is Disney. Disney is supposed to be the safe children’s channel so I understand them not playing those episodes. However, since they are learning practical life lessons it would be good to show those episodes. Not many shows out there address serious issues like drinking and sex. When it is portrayed on T.V. these days, it is portrayed in a more positive way and the consequences are not really portrayed. I don’t know, it seems like there are not too many shows with good realistic morals. It’s sad.

andixleigh said...

I agree that you cannot shield children from everything. If parents keep their child from seeing the sex and alcohol situations expressed on t.v. then they are probably not sharing information with their child about these situations at home. There is not need to watch movies that have graphic sex scenes, but an innocent show like Boy Meets World would be a perfect way to let a child learn about the "touchy" topics that a parent may not be completely capable of discussing.

The children/teens that follow the shows on the Disney channel love the characters in the movie. They feel a connection, or at least an interest in each one. People watch shows to follow what the characters do. If the kids that are watching the show see Cory, a character they like, deny premarital sex and alcohol use they could be encouraged to also stay away from these things.

Parents should consider these shows helpful and as a good tool to teach their child moral lessons. If the kids are going to look up to their t.v. stars, why not make it the ones that making good decisions instead of those that are now doing drugs and getting pregnant at a young age. Sheltering the child will only make it confusing for both the parents and the child when these topics are brought to the table in the future.

Dan Warner said...

Agreed. There should certainly be some limits on what kids are allowed to watch, as they will not understand it at too young of an age, but Boy Meets World is probably about the tamest presentation of these subjects there is. I mean, the drunken mouse in the Great Mouse Detective (one of my favorite childhood movies) is never edited out, and he ONLY looks like he's having a damn good time! Boy Meets World obviously shows that, while it feels good, alcohol can be dangerous. Going even further, it would be great if it somehow taught about using alcohol in moderation as an adult. These are the things that kids need to know before they are forced into situations where they have to make a decision and do not have the experience or knowledge to know what to choose. I suppose, in the end, it is up to ABC Family to show whatever they want, but I think that it is silly to hold back these episodes.